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Hey everyone. I just wanted to hear some other people's stories- had a crazy experience this week that truly makes me lose some faith in humanity. So, I met a dude at a weekly volunteer group I attend. He is 4 years younger than me and we are both in our mid 40s. So, rather mature adults by now! He asks me if I want to explore an attraction between us. Made it clear lwas happy to keep it very casual. He isn't unattractive, has a nice sense of style but after spending an afternoon , I noticed a deep insecurity and immaturity- Off putting. Then he proceeded to mercilessly start pressuring me for immediate sex, in a way I've never experienced. I don't judge anyone and believe it's each to his own, but for me, myself- I don't f*** at random. I explained that I won't jump in and need to get to know him first.. . 1pm and he's holding me down, not hearing my no. Finally got free. He told me he has a passion for me and that I'm just trying to use him for his style whilst being a tease! Bear in mind it's the 2nd time I see him! Told him to leave. Anyone else experience such madness from a grown man? Tells me I must be gay if I don't want him. It's funny actually...:)