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I like a girl, and she likes me too, but we're not officially together yet. I was planning to confess to her tomorrow and ask if I could court her. The thing is, she keeps mentioning other guys to me. One of my friends talked to her, and after they talked, she talked to me after school in mess and said that there was another baby added into her collection. Yeah, I assumed that I was the only one getting called like that by her. Anyways, that was my wrong because we ain't in a relationship yet, but she's way too friendly. She also told me that there was a guy who always smiled at her whenever she looked at him. Later, she walked over to him and started joking around and playing with him Do you see the pattern? She seems to seek attention from people who notice her. To me, that's a huge red flag. I know some people might not think it's a big deal, but it is for me. When I like someone, she's the only person I pay attention to. Maybe my principles or standards holds me back too much, but anyways i think it's better for me to be like this