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Humanity is really something special. The phrase "life is what you make it" is really cliché but some people need to hear that. It takes a lot to be a "failure." You get to dictate if you spent your time well, did things that brought you joy and invested into the right things. Don't get stuck on regrets or mistakes because they don't define you. Every day you wake up you are COMPLETELY free. You could run across your country if you wanted to with no repercussions. If you don't want to? That means someone cares about you enough to not let you do that. It's not a restraint, just another way to show that you matter.