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I really wished I could make long lasting human connections. None of my friendships have lasted, some a few years (2-3) but nothing more. Minimum a few days, sometimes I get along really well and easily with others. And other times it seems like people just don't understand me and I don't get them. But truthfully, it's been as if people just think I'm too much or maybe not enough. But never what they want. And I don't think one should change themselves to have friends to anything but, why haven't I had friends during these years of my life? None of them lasted. They all always left me and worse, some of them said they never would. What's the key to long lasting friendship if you can't understand what others want? Why won't they tell me.