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Advice for the avoidant type
In life I've always manage to have sorts of interests and relationships. However they don't last very long. Because of the fact that when I get too close or get into it , I lose interest and get bored easily.
It's been a problem because it's been a waste of time , energy and resources. For example I got into piano once so I saved the money and bought it. But when it played (it was cheap btw ) it broke for a bit. I was sad and list hope to piano. Then it got fixed and was better than before. However the spark or the motivation toward he piano vanished , I didn't even listen to piano much anymore.
It was just at a random moment where the joy I had would just vanish. I don't understand. I would like some advice on how to deal with it tho. I've tried various methods to fix it such as the reward method and setting reasonable goals. Even so , it wasn't enough to budge an spark of light.
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