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Hi guys. I’m a straight male, and I’m currently a Grade 12 senior high school student. Recently, I’ve been experiencing a weird feeling. Ever since I started senior high school, I had only ever fallen in love with girls. But now, in Grade 12, I’ve encountered something I can’t explain—I think I’ve fallen in love with my gay friend. I don’t understand these feelings, and I’m having a hard time accepting them. I’m attracted to him because he’s very cute and has a feminine personality. He doesn’t have long hair, and he dresses simply in typical boys’ clothes. However, I fell for him because of his personality, kindness, talent, and intelligence. I find him so cute, and I’ve become obsessed with him. I’m also afraid to commit or confess my feelings because I’m worried about how the people around me might react and judge me. That’s one of the biggest reasons why I’m confused and scared about what I’m feeling. Guys, what advice can you give me?