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I have this guy courting me for almost 4 years now and I really appreciate his patience with me. I know 4 years seems a lot but the reason I made him wait is because I wasn't ready for a relationship. And throughout the years I saw just how willing he is to finally get a yes from me. Right this moment I'm thinking about finally giving him his long awaited answer. But the thing is,there's just some part of me that feels like I'm not ready yet. Like I'm emotionally not ready yet for commitment. And in addition, there are some aspects about him I just don't like. Red flags, is what I mean. He's kinda like the jealous type that would actually wish death upon other guys that comes near me. When we would have misunderstandings he'd make such a big deal out of it and even go his way to making me jealous. Like he'll try to get super close to almost every girl he sees just to get a reaction. But the good things about his is that he genuinely cares. He's always the first person to notice when something's wrong with me that not even my friends could see. He gives me things even when I don't ask for it. He's good with words, he understands my request even if it means no contact for days. Do y'all have any advice to give in my situation??I'd really appreciate it if you guys help me:>>