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Genuine question how do you brake the "generational pattern" the prejudice outlook on life that people who don't have the same beliefs as you are as my mother calls it "not in the truth" I want to be one of those adults that gets to live in a city study a career that I want that I choose without my mother getting mad at me I want her to look at me like a REAL person not a child she can control but a real person that has feelings it's a lot to ask from a parent who immigrated form another county am just mad that she thinks am going to end up a mess or no path people say forgive your parents because it's there first time being a parent but what about me it's my first time being a daughter but for some reason I have to be the one to forgive her because she's my mother I never wanted this am scared of growing up that if I made my own decisions she's going to see me differently and that my decisions will NEVER be enough how do I make my mother see that I am also a person that I have feelings?