am i overreacting?

hello. im a guy. my boyfriend has been irritating me recently. first of all he played spin the bottle with his friends a few weeks ago, doesnt seem harmful, right? thats what i thought until i found out they weren't playing the truth or dare version. one of his friends lunged at him and split his lip doing it. second, he told me that his classmates flirt with him, and he entertains it. third, he let his hg sit on his lap. fourth, he lets this random bitch he just met on valorant call him his bf and he calls her his gf. im seriously pissed about all of this. am i overreacting?