All my safe spaces are disappearing

Seriously, what the hell is happening? First it's a friend of mine, then my roommate/friend (I figured they were my best friend after 8 years), then my chosen mom, and the last one was this woman I'd been talking to with the intention to get to know each other and possibly date. My friend completely dismissed me in a truly disrespectful way when we needed to communicate. My roommate is still deep in the habit of being almost unresponsive when I talk to them. My chosen mom is going through shit that's too heavy for her to have any bandwidth left for anyone (not her fault, she had to have surgery to remove breast cancer). The woman I'm talking to, well... I mean it hasn't even been a month. Close, but still. We don't know each other well. She seems like a safe person to talk to, but the first time I tried, her reply was just really dismissive. I was sure she was gonna ghost me for a while there, but I guess she's still here in the mortal realm. For now. There are serious talks to be had with ALL of them. How many people will I have left after that? (Edited for formatting to make it easier to read)