Mom's ex fiance (a true story that happened to me)

It all started in January 2025. I was 16 years old. My mom had a friend (we'll just call him TJ) that we both met at the new year's eve party (keep in mind, he was 30 at the time). I had a bad feeling about him but my mom gets mad when I tell her that I don't like some of her friends. But anyway, he invited us to go swimming on a farm outside of our town. I didn't want to go at first but he legit bribed me with ice cream. So I thought why not? What's the worst that could happen? On the drive there he insisted that I should drink brandy and coke with the rest of us. I was unsure and my mom was against it but some how he convinced both of us. Eventually we get to the farm's dam and it was a lot bigger than I thought it would be. It was fun at first but then I decided to swim across and TJ said he'd race me to the other side. I thought it would be just innocent fun. We get to the other side and take a break. As we're sitting there he holds my hand, I thought it was weird but I let it happen. And then he puts a hand on my THIGH and asks me if I'm comfortable with it. Obviously I wasn't because I was a minor and he's a grown man. (Part 2 coming soon, it gets worse)