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I’ve never been in a relationship before not even one of those short middle‑school ones so whoever I date first is probably going to feel like a huge deal to me. I know I’d get attached easily just because it’s all new.If a guy I was dating cheated on me, I’d be hurt, but I know I’d eventually move on. What worries me more is the idea of giving someone my first sexual experience. I feel like that would make the emotional attachment way stronger, and if he ended up hurting me, it would be a lot harder to let go.People might say, “Just wait to have sex until you know he’s the right one,” but that’s not realistic for me. When I’m attracted to someone, sexual desire tends to take over, and it becomes hard to separate physical attraction from emotional attachment.And honestly, that’s why a part of me feels like it would be easier to lose my virginity to someone I’m not emotionally connected to a stranger just so I don’t end up forming a huge attachment to the wrong person.