Black Kpop fan

Ok so I've been a kpop fan for a little bit and honestly I have two things to rant about -The racism/ strong ignorance I'm so exhausted to say the least. Just when I'm beginning to get comfortable, another racial controversy happens. Like I'm genuinely so defeated and just over it. Then, to add insult to injury, fans want to make a million excuses for them and treat them like they're a sheltered little baby who don't know anything about the world. Acting like they have zero access to the world. Don't even get me started on the misogyny that runs RAMPANT in fandom spaces. -Irrelevant events that somehow lead to controversy. Dating, eating, blowing out a candle, being able to pull, plastic surgery, smoking, drinking, and talking to the opposite gender are some of the topics that kpop artists get hate for. Just useless things that have nothing to do with the public. Where is the same energy for the actual criminals and true controversial individuals of Kpop?? Anyway, stay safe y'all and stan ateez!!