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Out of my league
I need your opinion on something. There's a girl I like who's way out of my league financially. We talk to each other, and I want to shoot my shot, but I'm scared of the pressure of not being able to provide for her. My allowance is only enough to get me through until the next one. I also go to the gym and I'm currently bulking, so food gets expensive. If I could, I'd get a part-time job, but they require applicants to be at least 17, and I won't be 17 until next year. Do you have any experience or advice on this?
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