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I think I'm getting attached to someone, let's name him "pen 🖊️" well I've been friends with pen for a few months, we are close but I think in starting to like him. He had experiences before that a girl fell for him but he didn't want relationship with them. Also we are friends now And he randomly asked me "would u ever date me? If no why not" I know it was just a question but still I'm scared if he is testing me somehow to see if I'm like one of those girls that likes him