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i manipulated the man who molested me and now he's obsessed with me, what now? (1/3)

to cut it short, i (16f) first met him (17m) as a friend of a friend. i was suicidal and he helped me through it. we started dating and it was lovey-dovey and sweet. then after a few months he started to only sought out sexual stuff and it devolved from there. there was even a time where he molested me because he didn't understand that when i was begging him to stop touching me, he was supposed to stop. it really broke out when i asked to watch a movie with him but he only wanted to do sexual stuff. it became a fight where i said horrible things to him, and he said horrible things back. the only difference was he said that he will molest me again, rape me, and kill me by strangulation. he also told me that he didn't care if i hurt myself or killed myself and that im welcome to do that because no one cares about me. i told my parents about it and they told his parents, to which he apologized through text and promised to never go near me ever again. just for some context about him, he was abused by his mother as a child. before he was born, his father cheated on his mother and his mother gave birth to him so his father doesn't leave his mother. it worked, but his mother would frequently hit him as a child as an emotional outlet to how angry she was with his father. he grew up an angry and temperamental child until he was enrolled into a religious boarding junior high school. he told me he was bullied there and only had one friend who really stuck to him, and is still friends with him to this day. his older sister said that when he got out of there, he was a different person entirely. he once told me he's had rape fantasies since he was in 3rd grade of elementary school, in which i told him to get therapy but he refused. for my context, i am mentally ill. I've been falsely diagnosed as somatic depressive and i now have the correct diagnosis of DMDD which is basically a mood disorder. continuation in the next post.
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